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We use condoms but she's missed her period

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Question - (26 July 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2009)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My Girlfriend and I are both 15 and have been having sex for the past few months, we have always used a condom. The last time was approximately 2 weeks ago. Her period was due about a week ago and has still not come, i am concerned she may be pregnant? Although i have also heard teenage girls cycles can sometimes get messed around as apart of growing up. Im just curious as to how concerned we should be with her being pregnant as clearly we are both not ready for a child

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A female reader, Asian!  United States +, writes (27 July 2009):

Well the condom didn't break so I'm like 98% sure she isn't pregnant, her cycle is probably just irregular. If she has miss her period befor then that most likely it. But if your still flippin go get a pregnancy test. And good job on using protection. That deserves a high five!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009):

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she got her period today! she was 8 days late and it finally came.

So just a message to everyone who ever goes through the same thing, unless u have reason to believe she is in serious threat of being pregnant, just relax and let it be for a while as we did.

Thanks for everyones help

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

EbonyBlossom agony auntWell the condom didn't split to your knowledge so it's highly unlikely unless somehow there was a tiny hole in the condom but even then it would probably split. Stress can delay a period, sometimes they don't come for no reason at all!!!

I suggest that she goes on the pill, even if you're underage a nurse will not refuse you contraception. Did you know a condom is 5% likely to split when you use it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

Well, this also depends on what contraception you're using. Did the condom split? Is she taking the pill, shot or have the implant? If she's not then you're increasing your chances. Ask her to take a pregnancy test.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntcycles do get messed up as she is still growing and maybe the period hasnt started because she's stressed out.

but to be 100% sure you need to get her to do a pregnancy test this will confirm things.

good luck

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

starfairy agony auntGet her to do a pregnancy test, put both your minds at rest...

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