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anonymous
writes:I've been with my other half for almost 7 years. We somewhat took a break for about a couple of months. Meaning, "you do your thing, I'll do mine." I later found out that he had gotten someone else pregnant. We don't have kids. I'm still with him trying to work things out. What would you do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): This is a very tricky one. You two were on a breather, yet he had sex with someone else and it wasnt protected. He should of been worried in case he got her pregnant, or even again STD's. He must of thought that you two were not going to get back together. Personally i would have to get him out of my life. He is now a dad. What happens in the future. He has responsibilities whether he want to be there or not. He may want to be part of that childs life. He could change his mind when he see him or her. What does the other woman want from him? If it is a father figure and he goes along with it, then what about you? What would of happened if you had got pregnant by another bloke, would he still be around, Ask yourself all of these questions. I would be gone like the wind! But the decision at the end of the day has to be down to you.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (10 November 2007):
 Personally, I would leave. He was stupid enough to have unprotected sex, I hope he got tested before you had sex again. I wouldn't want the hassle of someone else kid
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