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writes: I am really in love with a boy in my class. He talks to me and we get along fine. He doesn't know I am in love with him and I really love him!I dont know what to do. I haven't got a chance with him but I really want a boyfriend!!!I am really in love with him. Please give me some advice!From lonely and in love. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2005): Don't put all your eggs in the one 'love' basket. Tough if the basket falls, know what I mean?But you need to know whether he is interested or not and if he is a good a guy as you think.You don't think you have a chance with him? Well, see what he says... if not it was never ment to be.If you don't fancy the idea of asking him out directly why not think about what he is into and see what you have in common. Take things easy, suggest him coming with you to a museum one Saturday afternoon if that's his kinda thing. See if there is a band you like playing soon that you can ask him if he fancies going to see. Do you like the same kind of films? Folk can do these things as friends without the pressure of being on 'a-date'. You know what you want, go fishing and see if he bites!If you get to spend more time with him things will start to fit into place.As I 'hinted' at, sometimes things don't always fit into place how you would want/imagine but that is, as they say, life! And you have got to be in it to win it, right? It maight be bad it might be great but you have to know.If you are too scared of going after this guy because you fear rejection, and you see pals with bfs and want one too then look around you. There are actually plenty of guys you haven't even noticed some of whom will have a thing for you!Try the friendship-no-pressure-not-really-a-date-thang with other folk you have a common interest with. You never know!!
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