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*elp...
writes:I'ev been talking too this dude for 8months now. I like him alot and we spend a geat amount of time together i see him about 3 time or more durin a weekday and we see each other every weekend. He is the only dude I have sex with, and over the monthes i have grown attached to him. I dont want to say its love because love is a strong word but i do like him alot he is the only thing i think about in my spare time.He said that i'm the only girl he has been talking to, and having sex with. I asked he about dating and he said he dosent like me like a girlfriend just a friend. So were not committd but in a strange way we are since we only talk to each other and only have sex with each other.I dont understand why he doesnt want to committ to me.{i dont want a boyfriend) i want to know is feeling the same way as me? Why dosent he be romatic?Am i just a keep around girl untill he finds somthing he thinks is better?i know its not for the sex because we went without sex for a longtime and he still comes over and we still hung out.i'm so confused i'ev tryed to stop talking to him numouros times but i just cant. i like him so much and i just wish he would show the same feelings back, how can i get him to do that?And when i get mad at him and blow up he still stayed? Reply to this Question
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reader, help... +, writes (4 February 2010):
help... is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThats What i think myself some times but wheni told him how i felt he changed a little and we haven had sex for a month now since i was busy studing for exams and finals... and he always comes around and we dont have sex all the time we use to but not as much anymore he even said himself once to me (do e always half to have sex when we hang out?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 February 2010):
He's there for the sex and nothing else. You are sadly mistaken if you think he is going to be romantic. He cares only for the sex, and that's it. If you're looking for more, move on.
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