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*achakaRoni
writes:The last yr, Ive been seeing this guy- we started out by just having sex and then we became friends who sleep with eachother.He said he didnt want it to be anything more than that but I was important to him.I saw him again last night. It was a nice evening. I stayed over but we didnt have sex. We had just got into bed n were about to go to sleep and he put his arm around my waist. So I put mine around his. What does this mean?I've seen him three times this week- n each time he has hugged me.
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reader, childof1981  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 You are in murky waters with this guy and it naturally causes confusion. It sounds like he cares about you on an emotional level, but may be unprepared for the expectations/demands of a more serious relationship.
As for what this means for you, I recommend giving some thought about how you feel about the current status of your relationship. Some good points include . . .
1. Do I want a more serious relationship with this guy?
2. Am I accepting the status quo because I eventually think things will progress farther if I give him time?
3. Am I looking for other people to date?
4. If he slept with another person . . . how would I feel?
5. What do I want from a relationship?
Once you determine what you need, then determine what your friend can give you. If they don't match then you may want to scale things back to pure friendship, form a real relationship, or keep the status quo while looking for a more compatible person.
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