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writes:CouriosityWonder if anyone can help long term partner and I split 5 yrs ago due to his cheating/drinking we are now on speaking terms again,he now lives with someone else.In conversations we have had he had said not when he is with her but when he's on his own releiving himself which he does everyday he still always thinks of me and great times we had, he says he couldn't do that or be open with new partner as it took us yrs to build up to that we were together 18 yrs our sex life was amazing and although I don't admit it I always think of him when I feel horney.Is this normal we have both moved on, do these feelings ever go away. Any advice please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): I don't think the feelings ever go away. I split up with my first BF who I was with for 4 years over 11 years ago now. I've now moved on, I'm married with a baby but I still think of him loads. I know he hasn't ever been out with anyone else since me as I see his sister and she tells me things about him and what he's upto. I would love to see him but again but I haven't seen him as I think it would make things worse for both of us.
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reader, Msblessed  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 you guys were together for a really long time so your feelings for each other won't go away automatically it takes time it is normal for you to feel that way maybe you should keep your distance from him for a little while
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