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writes:I was with my girlfriend for eight years I am five years older....when we first got together she was 15 and I was 20. She was a virgin and I never slept withher, for four years I was faithful, but when I moved toGeorgia I cheated on her. She never knew about it, and in our seventh year we got engaged, she was spending alot of time with her girlfriends going out to clubs and we started fighting alot. Smart me, that was the time I choose to tell her that maybe she needed her space and I also confessed my indiscretions. She moved out and got her own apartmentand she will answer my calls or even hang out. but she never calls me and told me she feels this break-up is right for now. I love her dearly but I don't want be made a fool of either. I know guys are trying to get at her.....I don't know if I should leave her alone or pursue?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 Leave her alone and move on. Pay attention to this: she feels the break up is right. This is all you need to know. She doesn't hate you, but, the relationship is over.
In my opinion, your relationship was already in trouble before you told her about your cheating. So, I'm afraid it's very unlikely that she will come back to you.
Play it cool and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Well, 15 and 22 are very different ages. I get the feeling she's changed. Maybe she'll get interested in you again, but, right now, I suspect she wants to party.Your cheating kind of matters, but it also kind of doesn't. Likewise, her playing the field (I'm assuming here) matters, but kind of doesn't as well. You're both still young.
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reader, novax  +, writes (8 September 2007):
if she is good enough for 8 years then she is so worth following. man if u both feel the same about each other then there aint nothin that can stop you
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