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writes:Why do I feel nauseated and bad and as if I were being betrayed badly when I see my ex is moving on with his life? It's like I expect him to miss me teribly for the rest of his life. When I met him he had been 8 yrs. alone and never kissed or had sex with any other woman.So, I felt kind of special, and he was special for me also because I gave him my virginity after almost 2 yrs. into the relationship with plans to get married. This guy is not the same guy I met two and a half yrs. ago since he is not pursuing the same religious beliefs we shared when we met and he started hanging out with ordinary people. You know the kind of people with no morals. They steal, talk to him about orgies they've had, talk to him about drugs, and all their sex life. I think this has corrupted his life. I feel as if the only person I shared with my most intimate feelings and secrets has now betrayed me and transformed into the type of person I would have never confided my stuff to. So I live thinking about my ex with fear. Also I don't want to contact him because I'm very much afraid he will try to make me jealous and hurt me. I need to contact him so he would return some things I left on his apartment. I have the keys but I'm afraid to go and get them myself because I would have to search a lot for them and I don't want to find something that could hurt me. It's like he is still exerting power over me. Help!
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (24 September 2007):
 it's not for you to judge the person he has become. he's young and whatever lifestyle he chooses to live has nothing to do with you. if you want your belongings back, then you'll have to ask him becase you not just walk into his apartment now you're no longer together so you should give your keys back.
his new friends may not share the same beliefs as you but you don't know them to say they have no morals and you cannot regret your relationship because when he was with you, that was the way he was, now he's moved on it doesn't imply he's going to be degrading you and talking about you with his friends so you should move on because he has.
good luck
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