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writes:im 22 years old and been in a relationship with this 46 years old canadian guy online,there no exact words to express how happy i am to have him. I know deep inside my heart that i do love him more than anything in this world..and he also does for me..but life is so unfair for both of us. one night he told me that he has a idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis, and that disease has no cure, he never told his family about it, his only son and his parents dont have any idea about it..it breaks my heart when i saw him cry as he told me about his condition, i know i have to be strong for him and i must not show him that i am also hurting, sometimes I cant sleep thinking about his situation, his doctor told him that he need a lung transplant and has to find a donor, i know it is not that easy to find the donor because lot of factors needs to consider, new organ must fit to his body size and his blood type and lot more factor to consider..what should i do to help him,i dont want to see him dying, we plan to meet this december but i now have hesitation to continue it, coz i know it will feel more hurt if i saw him in person and if we will have more good memories together, i plan to stop our communication for me not to see him suffer the pain...but i think i cant do that, coz i love him so much what should i do now, i dont believe in miracle but if there is, I hope one great miracle will happen to my love and we can passed that test.. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 October 2011):
 Sweetie, I'm an old veteran of ONLINE dating and scaming...
idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis is interesting
1. it usually occurs in people 50-70
2. lung transplants are last resort and rare
3. BIG HUGE RED FLAG to me that he has 'not told his family....
I am a huge supporter of age gap relationships and LDRS. I just moved my long distance fiance down from a 2 hour drive to be with me full time. He's 13 years younger than I am. your gap is 24 years and you've never met.
feel free to offer emotional support but be wary of him asking for THINGS like money....
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reader, sweetiebabes +, writes (31 October 2011):
 If you love him, you will not leave him just because you are hurting with his health condition.
This is the moment he needs your support and above all your unselfish love. He trusted you so much and you just have to be there for him despite distance.
If you were to ask me, I would be with him and cherish the moments with him for as long as he lives...simply because YOUR LOVE IS REAL and HONEST.
Be strong for him.
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