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writes: I have been in a relationship for 2 years. About 6 months ago it got emmotionally violent, so i moved out of the house we bought together. I recently started seeing another man, he is calm, loving, and offers me all the emmotional support i needed. i also still see the man i was involved with before. He wants us to get back together, and even thou we do have fun, i know i no longer fancy him, but i feel tied to him as i have a house with him, and scared about the financial situation i'll get in. I don't have sex with him, but i do with the new man. i have never ever been like this before, its made me an emmotional wreck and i don't know what to do. Should i stay or go fully?
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (11 January 2006):
All the questions on your mind have already been answered by you and you know exactly what you should do about your ex. He is now a good friend but the sexual attraction has gone.
being tied to someone because of bricks and mortar are not a good reason sho suggest one of two things. He buys your half of the property or you sell the property and split the proceeds. Hanging onto someone while using property as an excuse doesnt let you progress to a new life so let go and move on.
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