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We never said we were exclusive but he still gets jealous and now I know something is wrong. What could have happened??

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Question - (2 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been having sex with this guy for eight weeks. Every Friday night. He leaves Saturday mornings. We have only hung out 1 time other than Friday.

Here's the thing: He gets jealous when other guys talk to me or flirt with me when we go to the bar. Last night he overheard me talking to my friend about a guy I went and got drinks with a couple of days prior to Friday.

We have never discussed if we were excusive. Well, he acted very distant this morning and actually left at 7:00 in the morning, stange for him to do. I texted him if there was something wrong, and told him I wished I knew what was going on with us. He texted back that he dosen't want to be in a serious relationship.

I am really confused because I thought he was interested from the way he acted towards me. We had a great time together. Can somebody explain to me what might have happened?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007):

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well my text messages worked i heard back from. he and i are on the same page about being serious, but he still avoided the question on if we are going to also see other people. we are good for now i guess, but i still dont have my question completly answered. He still wants to hang out thats fine with me i guess thats fine so as long as i get to see him. Not sure on the next move. Any ideas?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007):

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thanks for the advice. I did text message him today and said I think we had a bit of a misunderstnding, and really the answers that I wanted was to know if we were going to see other people, and needed to know if he was or would see other people. I would be alot more careful with him. I told him I really cant be in a serious realationship right now anyway because Im going through a divroce. He knew I wsa married but I dont think he knew I am in divorce proceedings. I texted that I like spending time with him and that I have fun with him when we do see each other. Told him I would understand if he doesnt respond back and told him Id see him around sometime. What is your opioion on that text???????. i thiink I got out what I meant to say yesterday and I feel a little bit better about it, But fro some reason Ive been crying about it today. Like Im going to miss him if he doesnt want to see me again. I dont really know what to do. Should I ust leave it alone. Id really like it if he did text back. Do you think he will???????????????????? Please help.

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