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*hula90h9
writes: i have a strange question...my fiance doesnt seem to be seually attracted to me. when e first met it was good we only had sex like 2 times. we try (he calls it just foling around) but he never seems to want to. he says its because if hi job i love him so much and i would kill to make love to him.... he suggested that he gets one of those LiL blue pills :/ but i told him i want to make love to him knowing its him wanting..not the viagra pill :/ plus hes only like 19 :/ i know we're still young but he keeps trying :/ i told him its ok and that we can wait till we're both ready and just wait. what should i do? should i keep jus "fooling around" with him? or just tell him that i dnt like to do that? when we fool around, nothing ever happens and i feel so turned on by what he does to me :( but it kills thatwe dont do anything :/ should i tell him? He thinks that if he dsnt try im going to leave hiM and find some guy that can :/ how can i tell hiM and convince him that i dnt want that.. that i want him?? :/
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reader, SkareCroe +, writes (25 July 2011):
Maybe tell him exactly what you told us? Its good to be open and honest about stuff. You should let him know how you are feeling about the situation and try tackling it together.
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