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writes:ok so my fiance has a name for his penus :/ he calls it mr.wiggle.... he also has a name for my private part :/ its a female name "brittney" but i just found out that he actually dated some girl named brittany could he have just named it like that cause of her? should i be worried? hes my fiance we're supposed to be getting married and he thinks about her? :/ i dnt knw what to do ive told him to stop calling it that but he wont he says he likes it..... please help i dnt wanna be with him and have him call my "V" some other girls name :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol thank u :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): tell him u don't feel comfortable him calling your privates his ex' name
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (21 July 2011):
 Does he know that you know his ex was called "brittney"? Call him up on it. Next time he referes to your "brittney" tell him you don't feel comfortable with him calling your vagina by the name of his ex girlfriend. If he cannot understand that he needs his head checking. In fact, as he so kindly named your genitals, why not pick a new name for his? How about "brad pitt" or the name of some crush you have, or famous heart throb(I don't know who teenagers are into these days :p).
I'm joking, but seriously, if you don't like ANYTHING that he does or says to you, you must tell him! Don't let him do it! I can totally relate. I would not like my bf calling any part of me by his ex's name. That's just wrong on so many levels. He might think its funny or cool, or whatever. But he needs to understand YOU don't feel the same. You've tried telling him to stop, but he didn't listen and basically ignored your wishes. So you need to be stronger the next time. You need to get across that he NEEDS to stop or you don't want to be with him. You don't deserve to have your wishes ignored, that is just rude. You need to make him listen to you and respect you. He might be a thick head, with little respect for women, in which case you are better off without him. OR he may just be a young guy who thinks he's being funny. In which case you need to make him understand you think he is in fact, being rude and immature.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): 1) What on earth are you doing getting engaged if you are 16 - 17 years old as you say you are? That is foolish.
2) The fact that he calls anyone's private parts by such stupid names shows how immature he is. And if he's immature, I refer you to point 1) above.
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