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female
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51-59,
*illie
writes:In a nutshell, met this guy on line. We met up, instantly attracted to each other. We both feel the same about this and want it to work but i am getting scared that its all going to end like it has in the past. I have never felt how i do for him, with anyone else. I'm scared i am going to push him away by saying the wrong things? Cant help myself wanting to be in touch with him, don't want to lose him.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (15 March 2007):
 You have to remember that every man is different. All that's lacking here is confidence on your part. You need to believe in yourself more and tell yourself that you are a beautiful unique woman and this man is lucky to have met you. Boost your confidence and self esteem up! Enjoy spending time together and don't come across all negative and needy to him. Men like a woman who is confident and assertive so show him you are. He's already met with you and liked very much what he saw so just take things slowly, continue to talk and get to know one another and just enjoy!
Here are a couple of links to help you build your confidence and self esteem. Remember and tell yourself you are worthy and unique and you deserve to love and be loved.
http://pickbrains.com/how-do-i-build-up-my-confidence
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
Good luck with this new man of yours! You deserve to find happiness in your life, he might just be the one.
Eve
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female
reader, AskEve +, writes (15 March 2007):
You have to remember that every man is different. All that's lacking here is confidence on your part. You need to believe in yourself more and tell yourself that you are a beautiful unique woman and this man is lucky to have met you. Boost your confidence and self esteem up! Enjoy spending time together and don't come across all negative and needy to him. Men like a woman who is confident and assertive so show him you are. He's already met with you and liked very much what he saw so just take things slowly, continue to talk and get to know one another and just enjoy!
Here are a couple of links to help you build your confidence and self esteem. Remember and tell yourself you are worthy and unique and you deserve to love and be loved.
http://pickbrains.com/how-do-i-build-up-my-confidence
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
Good luck with this new man of yours! You deserve to find happiness in your life, he might just be the one.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): Just be yourself and stop worrying about pushing people away. They need to see the geniune you not someone you are pretending to be to keep this man. Relax, if the others didn't like you for the person you are then they weren't worth wasting the time on.
Take care and have fun
xx
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