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30-35,
*ivejust2bJess
writes:This guy I been talking to for couple months has been showing interest in me as being more then friends, so over the weekend we decided to meet for the first time and partied with a few friends, had some drinks, and just chilled. However, as the night went on we slept in the same bed and cuddled next to each other for the night (we were at a hotel) and out of the blue he asked me what would I say if he asked me out and I said Yes and he's like ok it's offical. Well as a couple days went on, I noticed he isn't texting me as much as he use too before we started dating, and for some reason I'm becoming parnoid and just always thinking the worst like he lost interest in me or he is trying to hook up with another girl. What do you think is happening? am I being dramatic and need to stop worriying? Help me please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): ok it's way too soon to be looking for patterns and drawing conclusions. you said it was only over the weekend that you became 'official' and now you're seeing changes? that's like, 2 days ago!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 November 2011):
 You know testing should not be the only way of communicating in a relationship or the only way to show how much you care.
Maybe he slowed down because he is more secure in the relationship.
Stop and think. Imagine you phone couldn't text.. how would you carry on? Calling him constantly? Or just calling here and there when you couldn't see each other?
In my book texting is used to 3 things only:
Confirmation of plans.
Canceling plans.
Letting people know you are late.
Everything else you do while either being face to face or TALKING on the phone.
Having a husband in the military and having had him deploy several times where there was NO way to text/call/IM I learned that there are conversations that MATTER and the rest, are just fluff.
Give each other a little time to actually MISS each other and to look FORWARD to talking to each other.
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