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We keep running out of things to talk about...

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Question - (26 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, *ictoriaJK writes:

Lately my boyfriend and I seem to have run out of things to talk about. He calls me in the morning asks me how my sleep was and what I'm doing today. Then he says he'll call me later. After work he calls me asks me how my days was. I ask him about work. I ask him his evening plans and he asks me mine and then we hang up. Later on I'll call him or he'll call me to say goodnight and then the whole thing repeats again the next day.

I feel like everything is repetative and boring. I don't know how to make our conversations last and I can't think of anything to talk about. I also feel like our relationship has gotten kinda boring and we're almsot at a stand still. Does anyone have any ideas how we could get the spark back and get things going again? Or any ideas for things we could talk about to make our conversations less boring and lame?

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A male reader, goodguy11 United States +, writes (26 February 2010):

Definitely have to stop calling each other in the morning after work and before going to sleep. Might want to get a hobby of your own whether its going to the gym or hanging with other friends to shop or eat. If you want things to get going again you might want to try something that both of you haven't experienced.

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A male reader, micpets United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2010):

This is so funny.....it reminds me of the odd couple that you see on a sunny beach enjoying the usual hardback as if they have run out of things to say to one another.

Best piece of advise would be trying to do things that you normally would never do together/separately so that you expand your social circle instead of being in each other's company all the time.

You also try not phone each other so much, maybe a few days apart which will lead to both of you asking what the other got up to in the days apart.

Try it, it might just work.

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