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writes:I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16 and we want nothing more then to fall asleep in eachothers arms and wake up in eachothers arms.... But we can't do that. We've been dating for 6 months now and we love eachother. We don't even want to do anything but sleep . I can picture a future with him.... But I dint want to wait till I move out to spend a night with him...... Is there anything I can do.... Is it wrong to lie to parents.... They are against it Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): What is more important... sleeping with you're boyfriend? Who may not be the one for you, or may not always be a part of your life? OR!! Lien to your parents and losing their trust in you and who will always be apart of your life no matter what?
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (2 January 2011):
 Ok so sleeping together, but no sex. Just do this: sleep with him [without your parents' consent] and NOTHING MORE. Just fall asleep in each others arms.
As for your parents, they don't allow you to sleep with him because they know how great the temptations are. You sleep with him - you start fooling around, you start touching each other and so on. They want you to remain as pure as they know you. You're only 15, you still depend on them. I'm not saying this can lead to sex, but your parents know better what's this boyfriend-girlfriend thingy all about. They want you to focus on your other aspects of life, such as school and learning. Therefore, they won't bite the "we love each other so much and I can see a future with him".
You may say now that you picture a future with him... When I was 15 and crazy in love with my ex-boyfriend, I pictured a future of us as well. When you're in love, it's a common thing. But trust me, this isn't the future.
However, I sincerely hope you really have a future with your boyfriend, but don't rush into thinking too far, you're very young and you still have a lot to learn from life, don't let yourself guided by hormones.
Best wishes!
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (2 January 2011):
 Well if you lie and get caught then your parents will never trust that you just want to sleep together. Try sleeping together during the day, like if you are at eachtohers houses? Your parents probably think you are going to have sex. But either way they dont want you to do it. Lying to your parents is always wrong. Will you still do it at ome point, yes. Just decide if the concequences for sleeping with him is worth just sleeping with him. And no thats not a green light to have sex.
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