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writes: Please help me!I recently started university, had a one night stand with a guy two years older, it was great!so he came back a couple more times. We text each other in the day quite a lot too, Plus he always rings me when he is drunk, even if we are both at home which is 60 miles apart.One night he came back, i wanted to have sex as usual but he said he couldnt because hed 'hurt his banjo string' from having sex with another girl.I was a bit gutted that hed had sex with someone else but so had i!I asked him why he came back to my place if he knew we were not going to have sex and he said because he liked me??He does txt me quite a bit but hes such a 'lad' so he never actually says he likes me...just stuff like 'i know u love me u loser'-obviously joking.Anyway. Im really falling for him. Do u think i should get out or do u think we could have something more serious?plz plz plz help me guys.thanku so much x x
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (6 January 2007):
 I think this guy is just having fun. He may well like you but not enough to stop him sleeping with another girl. I would ask him if he wanted to go out for a drink, and before you have to much to drink ask him if he would like to go out with you with no one else involved although the chances are I think he'll say he likes things as they are because he knows he can come to you for sex or any other reason and your not going to say no, while he's free to sleep with whoever he likes! and think about if you did have something serious with him, would you seriously be able to trust him? I don't think i would because he could just say yes to you about having a relationship and then still sleep with other people. Think about it a bit more and then make your decision
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2007): I don't know, what do YOU think? If you want something more serious then you need to act like girlfriend material, stop letting him call you up and come over when he is drunk for a screw.
Demand his respect and only see him if he rings you up for a proper date, or tell him that you have slept with him, now when is he going to get around to asking you out on a date? And then you will just have to wait and see how he does.
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