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30-35,
*ukiro
writes:I have just got out of a bad relationship and am lookiing for love. I have fallen for this beautiful girl. She is funny and has a great personality. She likes me too, but only as a friend. I told her I liked her because I couldn't keep it in anymore. My friend says that she said that she would go out with me if I asked her, but then on MSN I asked her what she would say if I did ask her out. She replied, You have just dumped my friend and so I can't answer that. At times I think she likes me, but then others I don't for example, I went camping for 2 nights with her and my friends. Me and her hugged all of the first night. but the second she wasn't so eager. can anyone tell me what this means and how I can get her to like me?
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reader, Snobby +, writes (14 May 2007):
 I was in the exact same position as you 2 years ago she just wouldnt leave my side at one point then couldnt get far enough away from me the next. I thought what the hell have i done wrong??!! so i just left it then next minute she was back, i said whats the deal and she said i want to be with you i asked her out and what did she say? NO! girls are just like that at our age their hormones are playing up just like ours but your proberly like me and dont feel that yet. Just give her some space and try and make her jelous make it VERY obvious you like another girl if she comes back to you she wants you if she calls you shes jelous, give her a day or two you will have her if she blanks you completely, sorry mate shes just a bitch. send me a message if you need any help on anything else.Snobby
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (11 May 2007):
You know, when I was your age, I thought all girls had cooties. You couldn't get me to touch one with a stick for fear that she'd bite or something equally worse.
Our society is rapidly becoming oversexed, with children playing with things that have adults all twisted and confused.
I'm somewhat old fashioned by the standards here, so my recommendation is that you don't give into peer pressure and ignore how everyone seems fixated on relationships, sex, intimacy, etc. Just be a kid. Do things that kids find fun, like camping and fishing, and sports, and just doing nothing. There will be plenty of time in the future to discover the wiles of the opposite sex, and I can guarantee you that in a few years, you'll discover that what you thought you knew doesn't even come close, and this constant realization that you know less and less of the whole will only continue into adulthood.
So don't rush things. Don't push for a relationship. Enjoy being friends without all the complications that we adults can barely handle with maturity and responsibility. Just be a kid.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (11 May 2007):
 I'm guessing the first night she was actually keen but by the second night she'd had a chance to speak to her friend who had told her she wasnt comfortable with you two dating. Girls your age will almost always stick with their friends above love interests because friends will last longer. Take it easy for a while with girls. You're very young and should be enjoying life before getting involved with girls.
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reader, astroid +, writes (11 May 2007):
I think that you just need to ask her out .. if she says yes then .. hooray..you're in ... and if she says no, which it dosent sound like shes going to then wat have ya lost .. nothing .. but whatever you do.. dont ask her out over MSN thats a big mistake .. and if you still feel like you need to get her to like you more then just be there for her when she needs you.. but don't be clingy .. that too is a big mistake
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