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We haven't spoken since Monday, do I reach out or wait for him to contact me?

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Question - (11 April 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *aybaybay_x writes:

So, we got into an argument about him not keeping his word and he was apologising but I questioned his apology and said he says this kind of thing all the time and how was i supposed to regain trust if he always lets me down.

He got angry and was shouting saying he's had peace since he hadn't been on talking terms (the argument happened on the basis of another one, i called him trying to sort things out)

I was still quite calm and I was mostly upset because I just wanted to sort things out. But he hung up.

This was on Monday and still hasnt contacted me. I haven't reached out to him. I ALWAYS do and I'm tired of it.

I've been okay but I do think this is petty.

What do I do? Call him or wait for him to call me?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (13 April 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI would wait for him to contact you. And do not sit around pining away... get out and be busy.

and I agree IMPORTANT conversations need to be face to face.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (11 April 2015):

Honeypie agony auntLet him cool down and contact you.

Also, try not to have these "discussions" over the phone but face to face.

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