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*abriela1993!
writes:My bf n i have been dating for abt 2 months now. Its more of a sexual relationship, than an emotional, though, there r still feelings, sometimes. Now, the problem, is tat, we have sex, a lot, bt we dont, realli have that conection. And im starting too get scared, that he might leave me for a girl, who will give him sex, n that conection. We dont realli communicate much, when were together, cause he only speaks french, n i understand french, i just dont speak it that well. Soooo, thats a problem, n alsoo, when were together, outside, we never hold hands, or anything, its quite weired, bt what can i doo, if he doesnt hold it, there is a big height difference, soo tat might be ittt, or idk wat. What do u guys think?? honesty pls Reply to this Question
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reader, Ven  +, writes (19 October 2010):
One thing at a time:Holding Hands: If he doesn't do it in public, does he at least show you some other form of affection around others? Or does it feel like he is trying to hide your relationship? If you think he is hiding you, confront him on it. It may be that his family would give him trouble in which case you can understand. But if he is doing it so he can get sex without taking himself off the market, you need to dump him.No Connection: He does speak a different language, and that can be an issue. If the two of you spend a good amount of time together, your french and his english should get better (assuming you don't know 3+ languages). Sex: Lots of sex without a connection is not a good recipe for a long term relationship.All in all I would caution you not to get too invested with a guy who may only be using you for sex.
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