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writes: We met 2 months ago, he split up with his girlfriend in February, go out a couple of times, emails, texts, then he invited me to join him and his friends for lunch. Had a fantastic time together everytime we met, but I need to know where I am heading so I spoke to him yesterday.He said that he likes me so much, he thinks I am intelligent, interesting woman, for him the most pretty face he has never seen and that we have lot of potential together but..he doesn't want a relationship, he wants to be single for a while. So I have decided to stop this "friendship" before I fall in love.. have I taken the right decision?? or anyone thinks that it will be better to stick to him, mantain contact and wait to see if he change his mind?? help, please..
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reader, Pammie73 +, writes (20 August 2006):
Hello,
I have to say I agree with the previous answers. Have been there before many times myself, to know that when a man says he doesn't want a relationship with you, then that really is what he means.
You sound very intelligent, and you will meet someone who really wants a relationship with you in time - worth the wait. And if he ever did want to pursue something more serious, then he could always get back to you.
So, you've lost nothing, but maintained your self respect.
Good luck!
P xx
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reader, Mae +, writes (20 August 2006):
Mae is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much, not the only ones who has told me to stay away from him. feeling so miserable though, but I know long term I will thank myself for taking the right decision.
Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2006): My dear I have also being in your shows if you stay away will make you feel comfortable.Please go ahead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2006): No you are right. maybe he is after a 'friends with benefits' relationship. Stick your gound, respect yourself.
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