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writes: My boyfriend is 3 years older than me and yeah he gives me oral and i orgasm but he has a huge sex drive and i just dont seem to.. i'm 16. could it be that i just havent properly developed in this way yet?sex is rarely pleasurable, it hurts a bit even when i'm lubricated.i could go weeks without sex, he can barely go a day. he'd get offended and take it personally if i told him.is this just my age? or will i be stuck like this forever?
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reader, nettles  +, writes (15 June 2008):
 Women having a lower sex drive than men is not an uncommon problem, especially if you aren't enjoying it.
You have to figure what you enjoy, where you like to be touched etc and let him know. Or even have some oral sex first and stopping before you orgasm might make the experience more pleasurable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): Although he's 19 and 3 years older than you, he probably hasn't mastered the art of pleasuring a woman. Basically, if you don't tell him things aren't right, he'll assume he's doing a great job seeing as you have the occasional orgasm.
Tell him what's wrong. he might be offended but that's a risk you'll have to take. If he's sensible he'll listen to you and try to adjust his technique to make things better for you. If he then succeeds, maybe you'll want it a bit more than you do at the moment especially if it's something to look forward to rather than to dread.
At 19, he's sexually supercharged. At 16 you're not. That won't happen until you're in your 30's, believe it or not.
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