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*harine13
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a month and he is already wanting to touch me in private places, he is also wanting to have sex. have deep feelings for him, but im not to sure how to react to this, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, nlp  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 np happy that helped x
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (5 June 2008):
 mst welcome glad we have helped :) aphex x
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reader, charine13 +, writes (4 June 2008):
charine13 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey guys and gals, thanxs for the answers! it has helped me think over the situation, and i now am on the right path, thank you!
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (4 June 2008):
 hey i ave been in this same situation but i felt ready to dot hings althouhg i didnt ahave sex if you dont feel like you want to then dont its your body and your decision and also having sex is a big deal i am 14 and stilla virgin but when i feel like i want to have sex i will dont fo it evebn if he says he will leave you because i have fallen under pressure before and i used to give in and let my ex do things i didnt want to and it leaves you upset and down so dont give in to pressure
good luck xxxxx
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (4 June 2008):
 You don't let anyone touch you intimately or sexually until YOU want them to and until YOU are absolutely ready for it.
If he cares anything at all for you, then he will respect that. And if he doesn't, then the sooner you find another boyfriend the better.
Boy's urges and emotions are not the same as yours. Most boys (and there are few exceptions) will go just as far as you let them go. It's up to you to be firm about it. Don't do, or let him do, anything that you feel uncomfortable about in any way. If it feels wrong, or you aren't completely certain it's right, then it probably is wrong - wrong for you at this time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Rules to live by, that will help you know a good boyfriend from a bad boyfiend, and ensure that you never do anything you don't want to do.
1) Your body is your own, you share it with somebody you love and respect when your ready and at the age of consent. You always protect yourself with contraception, to protect against STD's and pregnancy. Your body is your temple, you protect and keep it safe untill YOU are ready for sex.
2) Any boy/man that loves you will understand and wait. If he dosen't wait, he dosen't love or respect you and you should finish with him and stay far away.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (4 June 2008):
ok majority of people regret loosing their virginity when their young so i would wait a while and see how you feel. we can only say its illegal but in the end its your own choice, my advice would be dont do it till your ready and dont let him push you. also if you even remotely consider sex then be on the safe side and get the pill and use a condom as their is also the chance of stds.. thats my opinion aphexy x
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reader, nlp +, writes (4 June 2008):
hiya ive been in a similar situation before. if you dont feel ready to have sexual contact with your bf en you should talk to him and tell him you aint ready yet as you still wanna get to know him but you will do things when you think the time is right. i hope this is helped ok x
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