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I want him to prove to me that his worth figthing for but I do not think he gets it...what should I do with him?

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Question - (4 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex and I broke up like 4 months ago but we never really broke it off for good. I started to feel like it was time to end it for good about a month ago and i stopped answering his phones calls. Today, on his birthday he called on a restricted number and acted like nothing was wrong, but i refused to talk to him .I still love him and i want himm to realize that he can lose me and that im not always going to be there. I just want him to prove to me that his worth figthing for but i do not think he gets it...what should i do with him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008):

guys are different, they process things in a different way we cant realy understand...

if he called you on his birthday i think that he is still into you.

as much as we try to explain things to men they do what they feel like doing, judge his reactions accrding to his intentions and accept him the way he is "if you love him ofcourse"...

some / most men dont know what to do, take it easy and call him if you love him!

good luck!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2008):

If after a month of not speaking to him, he still hasn't put any effort in, then I think it's safe to say that he's happy being single.

I think you should think of yourself as single too and try to move on.

If he sees you with other guys then he might start to wonder what he's lost but he probably just won't care.

Get over him and find a guy who's not so dim.

Good Luck!! xx

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