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writes: I am sexually frustrated. My boyfriend and i have been together for almst 5 years. I must admitt that our sex life wasnt anything to really brag about but now we have no sx life at all. It started to go don hill when i had to initiate having sex. Now he just tells me no or pushes me away. We both work long hours and we have both gained wait. However, my sex drive is still up and running and i work longer hours and and have physicaly demandng job than he does. I m starting to have doubts that he is cheating on me, but i have no solid proof especially with the hours that he works. However, what reason would he have to turn down the chance to mke love to his woman? I need help i dont know what to do. I love him and d not want to leave him or cheat on him. However, he brother is not fullfillng my needs. I use self pleasure techniques each night , but that is getting tired and old especially when my man is sleping right next to me. Help, what is going on , what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): Well, any man that pushed me away would be out of that bed and out the door and wouldn't come back in until he could give me a good reason for doing that. I'm sorry, but that is unacceptable. I would keep my eye open though to find out if he maybe cheating. In the mean time to spice things up, I would leave a really naughty voice mail or email for him, telling him in detail what you want to do to him and what you want him to do to you. Also, give him what you think he would love (oral sex, maybe?) and remember men are visual creatures, so wear something very very sexy. Make it hard for him to resist. Oh and...most importantly have fun, fun, and more fun...
Good luck!
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