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We have been together 3 and a half years and are very much in love, but how can it turn me on to imagine her with somebody else?

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Question - (14 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *onty writes:

It really turns me on to watch my girlfriend use her rampant rabbit sex toy while I masturbate. At the time I am imagining another person with her and I think she is too!

We have been together 3 and a half years and are very much in love, but how can it turn me on to imagine her with somebody else?

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A female reader, LynstHolin United States +, writes (15 July 2007):

The brain is the biggest and most importatant sex organ in the human body! Isn't it amazing that we can be turned on sexually (and some of us can even climax) just from thinking?

"how can it turn me on to imagine her with somebody else?"

Because you possess the wierd, wonderful human brain. If you're like me, you can't just 'turn off' your mind even during sex. Fantasizing helps keep you focussed on what you're doing.

And I think it's wonderful that you and your girlfriend are so at ease with each other sexually. You are on the right track.

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