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writes: I recently married the man I have been with for almost 3 years, in the past he has had a problem with pornography. I have told him over and over that this is something I do not approve of, but still he doesn't seem to respect my wishes..The thing I do not understand, is that we are having sex 2-3 times a day..Do you think he has a problem?!?
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reader, lea22dc +, writes (14 April 2006):
Not at all, there's no problem. I enjoy porn myself. When you married him, it was for better or worse. At least you know that he's not having sex with anyone else.If you're having sex 2-3 times a day, he shouldn't have the energy for anyone else. He's just lving out fantasies about being with other woman through porn. Every guy wants to be with other the woman, as long as he does't act on it, there shouldn't be a problem. You should role play for him. There are sex shops, if you don't comfortable going in to a store like that, order on the internet. Use google and type in sex toys, sites with outfits and all types of good stuff will come up. So take a chance and fufill one of his fantasies.
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reader, d4u04  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Not really a problem and I have said this before but I don't understand the attraction with porn either but men (and women) feel like they can express themselves sexual without inhibitions with porn because partner's can judge, magazines and dvd's don't.
I would try not to let it bother you too much and as long as you're sex life is still good then what's the harm in him having a little one on one time with himself? x
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