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writes:Me and my girlfriend have recently been trying to save our relationship but she is now saying she doesnt know what she wants. Is there anything i can say that would make her reconsider before she throws away the last 13 months and every thing we have built together ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007):
Hi Ok,
First you’ve got to stop and think about why she has her doubts,
You have to understand you can’t stop or control anybody else’s feelings
The thing is you came together for a reason now you have the Idea the desire
To get back together but she is not fully sure,
You could tell her the small things you love and appreciate about her personal things that you love and that you value within her, her laugh etc, Tell her you want to talk about this over dinner or a special place you like to go, be positive about this don’t pressure her remember right now she’s desiring friendship which is the basis of Love
Launch your new love together decide together if that’s the best option,
Remember its no point staying unless it will bring you both Joy,
Whatever happens I can promise you will be all right! In your life you have choices and options that you can also take choose the joyful path,
Good luck,
I hope you find what you want.
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