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writes:I am dating a 28 y/o guy and i m 33. He never hardly talks to me and i found all these text messages to other girls who he claims are just friends. But he has lied to me when he's made plans with one of them before. I broke up with him but he begged me back and i went. He told me he loves me. He never takes me out or spends money on me. We don't do anything but sit at his house whenever I am there. We do have a great sex life but thats about it. Is he just using me or doesn't he know how to act around me? Should I get out now for good?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): My engagement turned into a similar scenario recently. Love was fading away from his part and sex was our only activity. The only moment in wich my ex smiled to me and was affectionate. I spent more than two years with this bastard so breaking up still hurts. But you are on time. Run away! Don't be a fool like me. Even if he really likes you relationships are much more than just sex. You deserve better.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (22 August 2007):
 Yep, he's using you I'm afraid. He has these other girls on his phone as he's keeping his options open. You are a play thing to him and being older, a security blanket for him and nothing more. Get rid before he really hurts you!
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): i was with a guy for 7 months,he never took me out,all we did was watch tv,and have sex.he span me loads of lies,gave me false hopes so i would stay with him,now he has gone off with someone else.dont put up with this i think he is using you,best finish it before you get in to deep and get hurt like i did.good luck
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