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writes: I recently got the guts to call a guy from my past. About 3 years ago, he and I had a little fling. It was nothing serious and it ended pretty quickly since I was about to move a couple hundred miles away. I had not seen him since, til this St. Patties day when we were both at the same bar ( I moved back home ). Long story short, I got his number from a girl who knew him and decided to call him. He got back to me and before I knew it we were hanging out. I made the mistake of staying with him the first night of hanging out, but he was sweet and in the morning made me breakfast. The following day he called inviting me to the coast with some friends. I went. It was great and he again cuddled with me all night and showed affection. The only reason I find myself worried is he has an ex that he has been seeing on and off for 2 1/2 years and he still has her pictures in his wallet. Plus he told me the very first night of hanging out he wasn't looking for anything serious. I like the guy a lot. Is he interested or playing me as another fling? I need to know if this is going somewhere. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): I am going through the exact same thing right now. I really like the guy and think he's perfect for me considering I'm very picky. He told me from the very beginning that he is not looking for anything serious right now. He said he wants us to stay friends but I dont know if should fall for it. I just think it's shady, and as much as it hurts me, I think the right thing is to just move on.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (29 March 2005):
 Its clear that he is still with his Ex and you are just handy for a fling. Ask him outright where this is going and what the story is with the so called ex. Think you will find she isn't that much of an ex! If you want something serious and he doesn't, you will have to move on, or just risk being a casual buddy for sex when he feels like it. Sounds harsh but that how it is. Talk to him, but don't ever accept second best... move on, find a man that's available and ready to be with you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2005): He has been honest, you were the aggressor. Evidently, he still loves his ex.
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