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writes: I have a problem..well to start off i'm 16 and I had sex with this one guy that i'm like in love with now and I have a feeling he doesn't want to ask me out because he already "hit it" so why bother. Well i feel terrible and I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME! i think i love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, CrazyChavBaby +, writes (19 January 2007):
well i dont want to sound too harsh but if he doesnt want to go back out with you then he is a waist and isnt worth your time because sex is all he is after and u can do so much better than that. But i know it is hard to let some one you love go so why dont you make the 1st move, if you love him then you should feel u can tell him anything so either play it cool and ask him out to the cinema or pub etc or tell him how u feel. this would depend on how long u have known him. if u havent known him that long then play it cool. Good luck and tell me how it goes xx
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (10 November 2006):
 I think he did it to get u jealous talk to him then his girlfriends by right is you and he's trying to get you upset ohterwise get far from such a cranky
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionohh no no..see i already knew him for about 3 months already and we've hung out like almost every weekend with our friends and stuff but i had sex with him the 2nd month i knew him (mistake, cuz i should have made him wait) and i thought he would want it to go to the next level but no i guess he thought i wasn't interested so he asked another girl out that he barely met like literally in front of me and brang her to my house and kissed her in MY room. this happened like 8 days ago.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): Walk away with dignity, you had sex with someone who has a girlfriend which was wrong to start with. What do you want from him? To leave his current girlfriend. If he did that to her he will just as easily do that to you. Count yourself lucky. He isn't your boyfriend. You had sex, just stay with the memory and find yourself a boyfriend. A bloke who wants you for you and not just another notch on his belt. Come on, head up high, and leave him in the dust.
Best Wishes
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reader, Confused S +, writes (10 November 2006):
 Ahhh Hun, you must be feeling terrible!! I think Nic is right, sex definitely is something to be shared with someone special. You are special & dont ever forget that so wait til u find sum1 equally special to u... I dont think u shoul ddo that again as it just makes you feel as if u have lowered yourself & that probably isnt the case, you obviously really like him & thought that he liked you 2.. i promise you, if you hold back from sex & get to know the person, it will make sex so much better....Sex really is not everything!!! Good luck hun, i hope things sort themselves out
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reader, Astrid +, writes (10 November 2006):
I agree with Nic, and I would add it is risky to have sex witha man who has a girlfriend as he will try to continue having bith things at the same time or go back to the safest option to have permanent sex or affect(girlfriend, I would recommend you to move on from this guy and giving yourself time to think to have sex or not the next time opportunity comes up you look sensible, look for a relationship instead
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reader, CrazyChavBaby +, writes (10 November 2006):
oh chicken. how long was you with him before you had sex with him? talk to him about it if you dont feel like you can then you dont love him. because the person you should love is a person u feel u can tell anything. i know this probs aint the advice u wanted but i sugest talking to him or askin him out jus say do u fancy goin to the cinemas or wat eva and this time take it slowly. if he is worth it then u make the first move who knows he could b thinkin the exact same thing. if u wanna talk more u know where i am. i cant reli giva u much advice on this one cos i dont know the ins and outs
take care
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe guy i had sex with is 17 and yeah he still does show interest in me and the day after we had sex he called me and we talked.. he was really sweet and he said he'll stick up for me whenever a guy wants to mess with me. But the thing is that he has a girlfriend so he doesn't call very often anymore.
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