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writes:hi everyone so this sucks me and my boyfriend have been dating for alomsot a year and this has been the worst fight weve ever had bc he wanted a blow job and i wanted sex so i threw a fit abt how it wouldnt b fair tht he got off and i didnt so he started to throw a fit abt it and now hes left the house and he doesnt know how long he'll b gone he doesnt even know if he wants 2 stay w/me now and he told me that if i stay home not go out w/my friends or anything he might come back 2nite so we can finish our convo ive talked to my mom she told me just 2 let him be 4 right now let him cool off and give him his space but im not the type of person 2 give them space after a fight im the type of person that once we get in2 a fite i want 2 solve it immeadatly and when i do that he doesnt get enuf time 2 cool off idk wht 2 do bc i need him more then ever rite now bc weve been trying 2 get prego since september of 07 and i started my flow 2day and im really bummed idk what 2 do i need advice on wht 2 do abt this thnx[Moderatore Note] Help our aunts undersatand your problems better by always checking that your posts are written clearly and spaced properly before submitting in future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): Maybe the pressure to get you pregnant might have taken the fun out of sex? It is possible he just wanted to do it for a fun reason, just to get off, without having to worry about getting you knocked up. But if he loves you, he will be back and will try to negotiate with you
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (5 June 2008):
 well, you two should probably communicate about sex when you are not in the heat of the moment-that just causes frustration. Neither one of you should be throwing tantrums about this either.
Yes, you need to give him SPACE. If you are wanting to talk about things while angry, no one hears anything, the only thing you hear is yourself. How can you have a serious conversation when angry? You can't! You solve nothing!
Listen to your mother on this one. Give him time to cool off and it looks like you need time to cool of yourself!
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 ok when your having arguements and almost thinking of calling it quits a baby should be the last thing you should be thinking of right now because not only do you and your partner need a stable enviroment so does a baby and its alot of hard work..give him some time to cool off then get in touch with him and ask to talk about things.and as far as not seeing your friends my ex did that to me told me not to see my friends and i hated him for it, so i dont know its up to you if you want to give them up not him! thats my opinion on the matter aphexy :) hope it works out
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