A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm completely baffled by this one. I met a guy online through a dating site, and we met in person for our first date last week. I felt an instant connection -- conversation flowed easily, we had lots of things in common, we shared stories, we laughed a lot. We sat in the restaurant for about two hours before I realized it was getting late and I had to be at work the next day. He walked me to my car, then gave me a hug. He said it was a great date and he asked me if I would like to go out again sometime. I said yes, of course, and he said he'd call or message me online. I waited...a couple of days later I sent him an email to thank him for dinner (after all, he did pay for it). No response. A couple of days after that I sent him a text message asking how his weekend was. No response. I'm trying to play is cool, but still let him know that I'm interested. After this, I'm ready to give up. Why isn't he getting back to me?
View related questions:
at work, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, culturelost  +, writes (24 May 2007):
Hi, I´m on the same boat as you. Met this great guy online, he lives in other country. When we are together, it was amazing, but when we are apart, he dont show any effort in keep in touch, like having msn chats or answer emails faster. I feel that men have this problem about showing off their feelings... good luck!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007): sometimes men don't know how to handle a situation so they ignore it.
...............................
|
