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writes:Hi AllI am beginning to fall for a friend of mine.However, I am unsure how he feels about me. When we are together he talks to me a lot, but when he is with his friends, we don't talk at all, he ignores me as if I'm not there. I see him looking at me a lot, and friends have told me that they see him looking at me a lot. We get on well as friends. When we are in lessons, at college, I catch him looking at me.Any help and advice would be greatly appreciated, do you think he likes me?Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): Hi there, you only live once, or so Im led to believe and it sounds as though this guy is definitely interested in you. Why not take him off guard and make the first move. Ask him if he fancies going for a drink sometime, just the two of you, somewhere not too noisy so you can relax with a drink and chat. He'll be impressed if you make the first move and it will give you a good buzz of confidence too.
Good luck, doesnt sound ike you need it.
J
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reader, G-763 +, writes (22 March 2007):
 Dear MadamAs other aunts have mentioned in their posts, he definetly is interested in you.I must say he sounds really decent as he is being discreat about it and is not over doing it, which could make you uncomfortable.Funny enough, I was in the same situation as you except a girl was doing it to me, I was so unsure and I didn't want to make a move as I was scared that she wanted to just be friends. I was wrong, she definetly liked me! All I did was I acknowledged her signals and gave her some back. So I recommend that you do so if your interested in him.I recommend, if he approaches you and you feel it's a good time to ask him out, for goodness sake do it lady! The girl apporached me and I didn't do anything I just smiled back at her and I regret it so bad! She has felt embarased and as if I was regecting her! I have felt bad for over two months and only now (two months on), after a few posts and great advice from others, I have started to gradually get back to how we were before, but it's a slow prosses and I'm lucky thats she seems to be slowly acceptiing me (I hope lol).So yeah go get him! lol Enjoy yourself but please I advise that you don't make a mistake like I did, otherwise you shall feel great pain for along time!Regards!G-763P.S Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): It seems that he is trying to give you the signal that he likes you. Considering that you like him back do you return the gaze or just ignore it? If you just ignore it then start by catching his eye so that he gets the message that you like him back. If you want to have a relationship with this guy why don't you either ask him out yourself or if you haven't got the confidence make it obviously clear to him that you like him and maybe he'll ask you out.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (22 March 2007):
 I think he does but I think you need to be careful since he sounds kind of immature like a lot of guys can be at your age if he ignores you when he's with friends. If you like him back try chatting to him. Maybe he's just shy but it seems key to tell you to take things slow with this one or you could scare him off.
CD
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