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writes: Ive just had the police to my door again. This time I'm really hurt. The trouble is I'm not a kid and love this guy. He did internet porn a while back and I found out and went wild. Then he left after a blazing row. I went to Relate and asked him to come with me which he never did, but always promised to. I started to get things clear in my head and asked him to come home, believing it was me that had caused all the upset, and yes he came home. Things were good for a while and I did everything I could to please him, including web porn with me and him. Then tonght he came out with a big lie which again ended in a huge row and he hit me in the mouth. That ended up with me and him coming to a scrap. He had a small cut on his face ve ended up with a badly bruised back, split lip, marks on my breast, 2 badly bruised arms and a split to the back of my knee. When the police woman came to the door at my neighbours' where I was, she wanted to arrest me until I showed her the full extent of what my injuries were. Then she did a turn around. I've never known a copper do that. I know my back hurts but I cant see what's there. My mom turned up not long after cause my bloke called her and got her out of bed and when I explained the full situation to both mom and coppers and explained that I had written him 2 letters explaining that he had wound me up and put in these letters exactly why he had upset me. He denied that I had wrote him anything until the police found 1 of the letters I had wrote. The police then escorted him out of the house and my mom has said if I have anything more to do with him she will wash me out of her life. The trouble is, I love him as a person. I don't like the things he does to me when he gets mad and I feel like giving up on him but he can be a decent bloke when he tries. This has all started from the stupid internet. How do I carry on from here. I ain't going to call him again but how do I ever trust again when a computer comes into a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006):
Thats funny, I have the Internet too, but I havent been making web porn and having the police show up for fights...
You are making excuses.
You need to face facts and move back in with your mother until you get things straightened out in your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): Hi, I really feel for you. But stay away from him and don't let him back into your life or you mam might be coming to your funeral. It's no joke. Lots of partners kill their spouses each year. I don't know the exact figure but the thought is pretty grim. He will never change. You did an excellent in phoning the police. No one should ever get away with hitting. I do speak from experience.
Take care and look to the future. xx
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