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writes: I really like this guy from my college course. We get on so well, always laughing and joking together!We went out as a college group and I got pretty close to him on a night out. After a few drinks and we were dancing pretty close and I think he wanted to go further but I chose not to!Anyway when I saw him soon after I was a little embarrassed about it and just chose not to mention it! But we still get on really well and we do flirt with each other a lot!!!Last week he asked if I wanted to go out with him and his mates, but I couldn’t and being just my luck he met someone else while he was out. He never told me about this other girl. I only found out through another girl at college when she asked him how his date had gone! I felt really hurt that he hadn't told me and that he had continued to lead me on!He didn't seem hugely bothered about the girl, saying "she's alright" when asked about her.He still seems very friendly with me and holds extremely long eye contact with me still and is forever texting my phone about nothing really!!!!!Do you think he ever actually fancied me? And should I make him jealous? And why didn't he tell me about this other girl?Confused and jealous, 19
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006): He likes you love! and so he cudn't tell u bout this ova girl!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (13 January 2006):
 It sounds like there was a good chance he did fancy you.Maybe he still does, who knows. I am unclear if he knew this girl before or it was someone he met on the night out. Seems to me that he met her on the night out which might at least indicate to you that she probably doesnt mean allot to him yet. He probably didn't tell you because he didn't think anything of it, after all you have no formal commitment to each other. On the other hand he may have felt awkward because he was attracted to you.
As to making him jealous it depends what you mean. Falunting another guy may have the opposite effect to that intended, he may resign himself and settle into this other girl. So, you might end up pushing him further into her arms. Not to mention that you would be toying with somebody else. However, you should miss no opportunity in flaunting your positive qualities and showing him what he is missing out on.
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