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writes:Hey all, I have a slight dilema and i would love some advice.so heres the situation. a few months back i told my guy friend (ill call him X) that i had feelings for him. X responds by telling me he isnt looking for anyone right now and he would prefer that we stay just friends. so i continue flirting but i dont bring it up again. and in my eyes, and all my friends, it seemed like he was flirting a lot with me. so on monday he and i decided to go for a walk at like 1:30am. we walked and talked and flirted for a lil while. until we ended up talking on some side road. next thing i knew we were making out and he kept telling me he didnt want to lead me on (sure good job he was doing) X kept telling me that he liked me but he was in a confusing place.he was saying that he was drawn to me.then he tells me that he needed to think it over. so we went back at about 5am. the next day he texts me and asks if i will give him 2 days to think. its been several days now and i dont know what to do... should i demand an answer, send him a quick message asking if hes thought it over, or what? im lost and confused...
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 February 2009):
I'd give him a small kick up the arse as he can't mess you about like this.
Text him and tell him that since he hasn't got back to you that you assume he doesn't want to be with you. Then tell him that since you want to be more than just friends and he doesn't you are going to have to not speak to / see him for a while to get over him.
He'll either come back saying that he does want to be with you, or he'll not reply and that means you should cut your loses, go away for a while and get over him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): yes i know exacterly what u meAn i am in the same situation as u my friend he dosent wont a girlfriend yet and i dont know what 2 do but this is what i have been thinking and so just give him time if u push him then u could lose him so just leave it and let him come 2 u he will
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