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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend fight a lot! We both love each other but we still fight a lot and we are both tired of arguing and it's usually about stupid stuff like me or him liking someone else. Sometimes I feel like I don't love/like him anymore but when we're done fighting I know I love him. Anyway what should I do about this feeling/problom? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): When people fight, they often feel negative that way anyway. If you two fight a lot especially with all the little things, then it's most likely time for you two to step back and reassess your relationship, maybe even take a 'break' from each other. During this 'break', if you feel that it's better off without him, great, you've moved on and upgraded. If you feel that it's better to stay together, then remember to learn to help change each other. Relationships of all forms should grow with time through effort. If there is no growth, hence no change, then the relationship grows stale and arguments ensue.
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