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male
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30-35,
*geek
writes:My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago from a distance relationship (she lived about 1.5 hours away) because of an incident at the theater we where at.....I wasn't....forward enough you could say i was a little standoffish and she got embarrassed by her friends and her grandmother also her sister. and she broke up with me because she didn't believe she loved me.......and through the past 2 months we have talked off and on and she tells me she still loves me but dosn't think that i really loved her..... I have been trying to fix my mistake and trying to bounce back into our relationship but it didn't seem to be working. and tonight i believe i completely blew it......we where talking on messenger and she started to go into the accusational kind of talking accusing me of not loving her, and of not trying to fix my mistakes. I asked her to please don't accuse me of not trying to fix this then she said that all there is to accuse is the truth.......and then she went on about that me not loving her and not caring about fixing our relationship are the cold hard facts. then i believe i blew it when i told her the "facts" and said that she was being childish about that and that she needs either let me off the hook and stop leaving em hanging or let me fix my mistake and stop shutting me out. and she now said that she hates me for saying that.......called me a jerk, and said that she was stupid to ever believe that she ever love me, accused me of being self centered and self pitying, and then to end it called me your a self centered egotistical idiot who thinks he knows everything and for what you just said i despise you, not as if you care then said goodbye and said i'm just like my mother.....judgmental........do you think that there is any use in perusing this relationship? I still love her dearly even though she has hurt me and broken my heart over and over in the last 2 months.....what can i do about this? the worst part is every once in a while I think of the trust that we had.....and that her past boyfriends have hurt her..............pretty badly.......and that she trusted me enough to tell me what her last boyfriend tried to do to her........and i cant seem to shake these thoughts....any ideas of what i can do about this? i have just been an emotional wreck for the last 2 months.....i never have any energy, or motivation to do anything.....seem to randomly get angry, depressed, sad, frustrated, and happy......please some feedback would be most welcome......thank you......
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (5 March 2007):
 hey hunnie, i know how you are feeling you care and love her, and i know the emotions youre going through.. to be honest you have 2 options try and fix it or move on..im trying to fix mine but having no avail so far.. all i can say is do what makes you happy youre young live life to the full.. hope this helps hun xxx A
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