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writes: I need help. Me and my boyfriend dont think we are in love anymore but we want to be together to see if there is anything we can do in order to rekindle what we had, we've had alot of problems in these last few months but we both think we could get it back. Is there any chance we could? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Its only natural that the problems you have both had in the past will take their toll on your relationship further down the line. The likellhood that it will work out for you both is quite high as you both are willing to work at it. Why don't you both book a weekend away somewhere and spend some quality time together, or book a meal at your favourite resturant.
Good luck x
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Well the good news is I think yes there is a chance, a very good one in fact since you both want to work on it. I think you need to start by taking some time out for yourselves just to chill basically and forget the problems you have been having. Don't put any pressure on it, just relax and have fun. Do something that you both enjoy and hopefully you will start rediscover the attraction that you first felt.
Hope that helps. Good luck.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (20 June 2007):
 There might be. A lot of couples have a tough time. Me and my partner split up 18ish months ago after a very tough time and we thought we didn't love each other. In the end we couldn't live without each other. If it's meant to be then it'll work!
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reader, donnab +, writes (20 June 2007):
hi
Id say there is a chance you can get things back on track, especially as your both willing to try at it, that in it self shows you both care alot for each other. What id suggest is because youve had a few problems you probably just got lost up in it all, you need to have fun. Dont put yourselves under to much pressure to get things back. If love is there it will come back. Just enjoy yourselves remember the things you loved about each other and loved doing. Relationships can be hard at times and the pressure of this can make things harder. Learn to relax with each other and open up more then your feeling will come natural.
Just remember fun is the best way to enjoy each others company and the rest will follow.
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