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writes: Hi,I've dated this guy for about 6months, we were really really close,we never had sex though. We professed love for each other and spent almost everyday together. However,one day in a conversation we had...he told me he didn't want a serious committed relationship because when we met he had now come out of a 3yr relationship and he's not ready. I felt hurt because i thought if he had loved me as much as he said...he would want to be with me though no matter what. Well that was that and i still decided to be friends with him though.I love him so much and if i don't talk to him for a day, i don't feel right..so i settled for friends and to top it off..he would still call everyday normal..and still text me saying how his life cud never be the same and he misses me so much. 3weeks passed with the same calling and texting...then one of my bestfriends spotted him having dinner with one of his ex-gf...and told me he was canodling with the girl. At the same moment i called him...and he instantly lied and said he was with his boss and his freinds having dinner. Why would he lie if we're friends? And not only that,i was so hurt that he could date other girls in 3weeks especially an ex-gf...and after all what he said how he still missed me.After that..i told him i never want to talk to him again...but he keeps calling and texting still,saying he regret what he did...and that it was jus one time he was out with his ex. I always hang up the phone on him and never reply to his text because i'm angry at him..because with all his talk he still doesn't say anything about us and a relationship! Should i still be friends with him or just cut ties with him completely? He puts it to me that if i ever did love him i will still want to be his friend at least..i think it's his guilty conscience bothering him but I love him and miss him alot...need some advice...thanks!
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reader, Jessemccartney +, writes (2 June 2006):
 Hiya its Nicky here,
i have kinda been through this!!!
So don't worry. I think u should stay friends but not as close close firnds, but as normal. Try to set things straight with him that if he wants 2 b friend den 2 stop sending u messages saying that he regrets it, coz he obvisouly don't mean it!! Try NOT 2 spend so much time with him and don't talk 2 long on the phone!!
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