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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex split up with me last August when his father was dying of cancer. At first i found it difficult not to contact him because his father died 2 days after we split. We speak/email/text every few weeks and had a minor slip up on NYE when I went to party at his house. In february he had booked a holiday to South America (something we both talked about doing together) and at the time I was also looking to book the holiday myself. We then spoke about me joining his trip with 2 frinds of his, one of which he said he had something with after we split but nothing further was going to happen. After much thought i have agreed to go on the trip so there will be 4 of us (another guy). Today he calls me and says he is 20mins from my work place can he come over? So I agreed - he came to tell me he has been seeing someone for a week? Part of me is jealous part of me isn't and not really sure about the whole thing. We aren't due to go away until the end of August -so 3 months? Why did he come and tell me in person? Do you think he still has feeling's for me? Should I still go on the trip? What about his new girlfriend of a week? What will she think about him going on holiday for 2 weeks with me and another girl? Confused, please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): I'm not sure how much fun this trip will be for you? Are you just going in the hopes that you'll get back together? I'm guessing he's telling you about the girl of one week because he already thinks she is pretty significant and maybe he'll want her to join the trip - depending on where they are in 3 months?
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