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writes:About three weeks ago, my boyfriend and I broke up after two years. He slept with me two weeks ago, and said one week ago he wanted to get back together, but then changed his mind. I know that he is confused, and have found it really hard to get over it. Last week after he fianlly told me to F*ck off and that it wasn't going to happen, i caught him driving past my house. He has kept his self really busy and said he doesn't want to see or talk to me again. I have left him alone for the most of four days and when I give up to my head and call him he shouts at me. He told me he doesn't find me attractive, but i think he said that to hurt me so i would go away. Creul to be kind and all that. Im finding it so hard, and would like to know, if its you think he'l want me back when im over him, or if he'l regret breaking up with me. He has been so horrible, andmy friends and family tell me to forget about him and heal but i physically hurt in my heart. Please let me know what you think, fromyour experience is going to happen. I was his first love, and his first time and he has a tattoowith my name on it on his arm, and was going to ask me to marry him at christmas as his friends let slip. I love him...please help me. Thankyou xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): It is not nice to be hurting, and it is difficult not to contact him, but you must give him time and space.
Don't make contact again. Try and keep yurself busy and go out with friends. Nobody can tell you what will happen and if he will come back or not, but if you are going to keep on contacting him and bugging him he most definitely will be running further away and not come back to you. Give him time, he might realize he is missing you and make contact. Don't sit around crying and waitng for him to call. Go out with friends and stay busy.
I hope things work out for you but remember, if he is not coming back to you, let it go, then he is not worthy of your love.
Keep your head high and remember the words of Sol Chaneles:
"To behave with dignity is nothing more than to allow others freely to be themselves".
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