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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago. he says that he still cares about me more than anybody else and the only reason that he broke up with me is because he doesn't see us being together forever. he thinks there is someone else out there for him, but at the same time, he still loves me very much. we have been pretty intimate in the past (we dated for 2 years). now, he wants to be friends with benefits, because we are both still attracted to each other, and we still love each other. he just doesn't want a relationship. is that wrong? i don't want it to ruin our friendship.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 September 2009):
So he wants to screw you til he finds someone to have a relationship with? Unless you can shut down all feelings for him I wouldn't do it. You will be the one hurt in the end.
He wants sex, not you.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (15 September 2009):
Our stories are similar, except I have not dated the guy that I am having casual sex with. If I were you, don't do it, because you're going to be the one getting hurt in the end. Men don't feel emotional pain like we do, I already figured out that I'm going to get hurt. My advice to you is tell him to find someone else.
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