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writes:Hello All,To make this as short as possible I will just say that I posted a question a couple weeks ago about how to stay friends with a girl who I had previously dated for 2 months. Our break up was not ugly, it was basically her saying that she wasnt ready to be in a relationship yet. So we decided to stay friends and we have hung out a couple times in the last 2 weeks.So to my question, last night she invited me to her house to hang out. I brought a couple movies and we sat on her couch and watched both movies until midnight. During the second movie, she laid down with her head away from me and started touching me with her feet (sounds weird now that I say it). But she did this in such a way that made me feel like she was flirting. She would rub my side with her toes and things like that. So, I attempted to flirt back without trying to be too forward. I eventually ended up giving her a foot massage.After the movie, I gathered them up, she thanked me for coming over and I left. I guess I'm confused, do you think she was flirting with me and it is something I should look into (see if she does it again next time we hang out) or how should I take it?To be clear, I do still really like this girl and would love to be given a second chance to see how things work out. Thanks in advance for any help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 December 2012):
 My husband often lays with his feet in my lap... when I was recovering from major surgery in June 2011 the only part of my body he could touch were my feet and lower legs and he sat for hours holding my feet while we watched tv...
You need to clear up with her NOW whether or not she's interested again.... if she says NO... then you need to go NO CONTACT with her as you are not really ready to be just friends with her.... and you may never be.
TBH, I have never seen a couple break up and remain friends. FRIENDLY yes. CIVIL yes. I could take a picture of me with my current husband and two of my ex husbands and we'd all look like chums... does not mean I am friends with them or would want to hang out with them.
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reader, Hangin  +, writes (19 December 2012):
I think she likes you but she doesn't want a commitment for now. You just have to wait for now until she's ready. If she continues to show flirty moves, then that means you still have a chance.. You have to hit the right timing if you want to be back to your relationship. For now, you have to let her see how great a man you are since you are her friend. :) Do your best and good luck.
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