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writes:I just broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months. She and I were perfect. I truly loved this girl with all of me. She just got back from her break from school and she had changed. Our relationship was SOO strong before she left and I knew something was up when she got back.We had a talk where she told me that she truly loved me and had to prove to herself some things. She just got an apartment and is truly living on her own for the first time at 20. During our talk she told me that she wanted to concentrate on school, and making her dreams come true and that is fully acceptable in my book. But the thing was that she offered me the chance to stay in the relationship, to work things out and see if things could go back to the way they used to be. But I knew that wasn't what she wanted so I had to let her go. I couldn't fight for her anymore.Her grades weren't what she wanted last semester and we met the first week of school, so is this just a case of where she needs a break and she'll come back to me soon or should I stop holding out on the hopes that she might come back to me.I hate this, I loved her and she loved me but now we are apart and I am falling apart. I haven't felt this way for a girl before and it hurts soo much. She said that I was her best friend and that she doesn't want to lose me in her life but I don't know if I can be her friend. I don't know if I can look at her as just a friend, because my feelings for her are so strong.Is there anyone out there with some suggestions or anyone going through the same thing?
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (1 February 2007):
 I was going throught the SAME thing. My boyfriend broke up with me cuz he said he was gonna get bad grades being in a realtionship, but in your case she DIDN'T break up with you, she wanted to work things out. Are you sure that staying in a realtionship wasn't what she really wanted?? Cuz if she didn't really want to be with you anymore she wouldn't have tried to work things out don't you think?. I think you should tell her you want to be with her again and see what she says. Maybe you guys could work things out.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (1 February 2007):
 I think you keep her as a friend. Regardless of how much she wants to concentrate on her studies you can be a great friend to her by being there for her and looking after her when she needs a break. If you keep her in your life in this way then if you want to get back together when you've finished studying then you can!
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