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writes: Hi. I recently broke up with a girl who I've been going out with for about 2 months and a half. We're both about to turn 16 and I broke up with her about 2 months ago. (it seems like a very short time here). The reason I broke up with her is because she lived in a city next to me and went to a different school, but it only takes 15 minutes to drive there... and sometimes our schools would have competitions and we can meet. Also, her parents didn't let her go out alone with me until she is a senior! (when school starts in september we are juniors)My problem is that I regret breaking up with her so much it hurts. Every day, things always remind me of her and I still think of her as perfect. For a while after I dumped her she kept talking to me online (how we communicated mostly, she's shy always seemed afraid to talk on the phone or something but loved to email and talk online). So I thought "hmm, she must want me back?" but for the last week, she hasn't been on at all which is unusual, (she gives me an instant message usually every time she goes online because she likes talking to me best, I am sure about this). Should I tell her how I really feel about her or something and hope that we can wait until we're seniors? I am pretty confused right now and any advice would help me greatly. She's a shy person and isn't the type to make any first moves. It feels so.. out of reach.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (27 July 2005):
I think it would be healthier for you to move on with your life and try to forget about this girl, it is a long time to wait until you are seniors and she may not want to wait that long. You will meet other girls that you like in time.
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