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writes: Help I need advice!I had been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, however, when working abroad over the summer, I slept with an incredibly gorgeous french guy on more than one occassion. I felt it wasn't a mistake as I really liked this guy but he seemed not to like me as much in the daytime as at night. On my return to England things felt wrong with my boyfriend as I just did not fancy him anymore. I told him about everything and we split up. I really miss him and know I love him, but don't fancy him and I still think I have feelings for the French lad. What's going on!
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reader, pops +, writes (19 September 2005):
YOu cheated on your bf, that is what has happened, and now you have lost both him, and the french guy, who probably never intended any long term romance with you. Move on, and give your ex-bf a break. He deserves better. You didn't have to tell him about the guy in France, and I suspect you did because part of you wanted to get even with him for some perceived slight you have failed to mention. Move on, and learn from this disaster. If you are going to have an affair, keep your mouth shut about it. And if you decide to have another affair, first decide what is so wrong with your current relationship that you can't solve by putting a little more work into it, rather than starting up with a new guy. When you are young, it nice to be wanted by more than one guy. Great for the ego. But it has consequences.
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