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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so there's this boy, iv known him for a few years now. and we dated for 2 years, we did brake up and its been about 6 months now. we stopped talking for a bit, and now were hanging out again and everything.. iv slept at his house a few times, and he acts like everything is still the same, the things he says to me are so sweet, and it seems like he really wants this too. i can honestly say that iv never had these feelings for anyone else before, for the first time, i can say i think i love him... the only problem is, that he's 5 years older then i, and hes into partying and shit like that, and sometimes when were not together it seems like hes having more fun with other girls, and its killing me too see him with them .. if you have any advise for me, or have any good ideas, please help me out, because i dont wanna loose him .
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): I can honestly say I've been in your place before. My advise for you is ask him what is the status on this relationship, are u guys exclusive? or friends with benefits? or what is it that he wants from u?.. Because your feelings are growing deeper for him and u don't want to lose him . Because what if, while he is going out partying with other girls he falls for one of them.. He's just gonna toss u aside..and you're gonna end up getting hurt.. Tell him how u feel U need to know where u stand.. And from there you'll know what to do..
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